Important tips to survive the hostel days

During this teenage phase of life, hormonal change
starts taking place inside the body. As a result of this hormonal change lot of
physical changes can be noticed outside the body. Sudden physical changes
within the body are entirely responsible for low self-confidence among
teenagers.
WHY SELF-CONFIDENCE LEVEL SHOULD BE HIGHER
AMONG TEENAGERS?
As we all know it very well that self-confidence is
primarily listed as one of the critical factors to get success. The level of
self-confidence directly affects the person's behavior in public and determines
the person's overall personality.
From this above point, it is quite evident to say that
a higher level of self-confidence should be present among teenagers. Otherwise,
they will not be able to establish themselves in this cruel and competitive
world because the teenager has to face a lot of emotional ups and downs. Not
only emotional problems teenagers have to tackle educational pressure also.
Teenage acts as a gateway to adulthood; hence higher
self-confidence should be possessed by the teenager. Otherwise, teenagers will
never be able to establish themselves as prosperous person when they will reach their
adulthood.
The ways through which parents can help
teenagers to boost their self-confidence level:
Teenagers always look upon their parents as a source
of role models and inspiration. For this particular reason, parents can uplift
the self-confidence level among teenagers very quickly. If your teenager is
drawing inspiration from his/her elder brother or sister or any other person, there is nothing to
worry. The only thing you have to look after that your teenager is drawing attention from a positive source. otherwise they will end up in destruction of their career.
· Always treat them with respect: As a parent, you have to keep it in mind that your teenager is growing slowly and maturing themselves into an adult. I hope everyone know it very well that every person deserves respect. Similarly, teenagers also deserve respect, and their opinion in a family matter should be given similar importance as that of an adult.
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Praise your teenager very often: Try
to praise your teenager for the excellent job they did, getting praised
from your side will boost their level of self-confidence. Try to keep themselves
aware of the fact that you are proud of them.
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Stop criticizing: Parents
should avoid criticism as much as possible because criticism directly affects
the teenager's self-confidence level. After a specific limit of criticism, they
will feel humiliated and become hopeless.
· Always focus on their strengths: Never compare your teenager with another teenager of his/her age. Because every teenager use to have their own strengths and weaknesses. As a parent, it should be your duty to focus and point out your teenager's areas of strength. After finding out the strengths try to make them realize that these are your strengths, and you have to work on this area. So that they can give the best out of them in that field.
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Make them realize that physical looks
don't matter: Most of the time, it has been noticed
among teenagers that they use to suffer from anxiety because of their physical
looks. It's a widespread tendency which can be noticed among teenager that they
use to make their body and face looks like celebrities. But they end up in
failure, which results in the downfall of self-confidence. It must be your duty
as a parent to make them realize that look doesn't matter to get success in
life.
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Act as support:
Role played by the parents in the life of a teenager is immense. Small-small
gestures from your side can be a great source of support when your teenager is suffering
from low self-confidence and low self-esteem. Small support from your side can
act as a source of catalyst, which will boost their level of self-confidence in
the long run.
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