Important tips to survive the hostel days

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  If you are moving into a hostel for the first time as a student and you are still a teenager from inside, then you have to face many difficulties at the begining because you have to adjust yourself according to the new environment. Living far away from home with new people who are coming from different background makes things more complicated. Despite of all these problems, you are going to miss all those amazing people whom you have met in the hostel at the end of your hostel life. Experiencing the hostel life is one of its kind in itself, and I am  going to tell you some of the essential tips which i have personally experienced and implemented during my hostel days that can help you to make your hostel life amazing.   Some essential tips to make your hostel day's better: ·          Carry surplus amount of home made food:   In most of the hostels, food which is served to the students is not up to the mark in terms of taste and quality. If you are living in the hostel for

Parenting tips to control disrespectful teenager

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Dealing with a disrespectful teenager is not an easy thing for the parents. The situation gets more adverse and challenging when teenagers start to disobey their parents. The disrespectful attitude of teenagers towards the parents is enough to set the entire house on fire.

Being a parent of a teenage kid, you have to keep a lot of patience to deal with your teenager; otherwise, the situation will worsen. Rude answers to soft questions, muttering under the breath, and slamming the bedroom doors are widespread among the teenagers.

The disrespectful attitude of youngsters towards the parents is prevalent in this age. This rude and aggressive attitude marks your child's healthy growth as we all know it very well that a lot of hormonal changes occur within the body during the teenage days. All this disrespectful and aggressive behavior comes out as an immediate result of these hormonal changes which use to takes place inside the body. 

These above-mentioned problems are quite common among teenagers. Because teenage is the period when your teenager will try to behave like an adult, and they will try their level best to make their own decision. For this particular reason, teenage is mainly considered as one of the most crucial phases of life. But parents can handle this situation quite easily by following some essential parenting tips.



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Some of the essential parenting tips which parents should follow to control their disrespectful teenager kid are mentioned below:

·         Parents should decide which activities and behaviors are acceptable and which are not:

It is quite evident for the parents to get annoyed with the behavior and activities of the teenagers. As a teenager kid's parent, you have the right to comment on the dress they were wearing and the hairstyle they were keeping.
But it does not mean that there is a need to react on every small thing, too much reaction from your side can result in the downfall of the relationship between you and your teenager. If this situation prevails between you and your teenager, then your teenager will automatically consider your criticism as background noise.

As a parent, it must be your duty to clear all the doubts regarding the behavior and activities allowed inside the house and which are not. Criticizing your teen continuously without clearing all these doubts does not make any sense.



·         Try to focus on issues one after one:

Most of the time, parents suffering from the rude behavior of the teenager seem to look more tired and stressed very often. In this type of pathetic situation, parents start losing their patience and, at the same time, while dealing with the problems parents use to approach their teenager in a very wrong, which results in an increased number of issues.

Suppose your teenager is having multiple problems. Then try to solve all of the issues in a very systematic way and try to approach the problem one by one. A proper approach towards the problems gives a beneficial and fruitful result.

·          Offer some space to your teenager:

As we know it very well that teenage is the phase of life when your teenager kid will try to unwind themselves from you. Because a lot of hormonal changes occur within their body and as a result of this hormonal change, they will seek to behave like an independent adult. During this teenage day, you can easily find that your teenager is trying to solve their problem on their own.
But we humans are biologically programmed in such a manner to protect our offspring. Protecting your teenage kid against adverse situations is good, but overprotection can result in problems.
It's better to provide personal space to your teenager because they are slowly maturing into an adult.

·         Try to avoid punishing your teenager:

Never try to be harsh while dealing with your disrespectful teenager. Treating your teenager with sharp or blunt tool is not a decent idea; adopting this severe punishment method will negatively affect the relationship between you and your teenager.

Always try to make them realize the fact that what they are doing is completely wrong. If the same type of condition prevails, then you must go for medical assistance.

Try to remember one thing the relationship between parents and a teenager is very fragile. Slight damage in the connection can destroy its original value.



Conclusion
Parents can follow these easy tips mentioned in the article to increase their parenting skills. To guide their disrespectful teenager on the right path to convert them into a responsible and respectful citizen of a country.

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